Divorced, 55 yrs old in Carlisle Cumbria | When I got divorced I didn't feel sad or regret anything. I've been wishing for freedom for quite a while now and since I'm an independent girl now nothing can stop me from chasing boys or bed hopping. I still have the juice, the sex drive and the stamina to stay in between sheets. But I don't do the first move. I still believe that a guy should step forward first. I'm still kind of old-fashioned but with a twist. What's the twist?