Married, 49 yrs old in Clapham London | Married. Sane. I am looking for a solid male friend. Someone who I can connect with intellectual and emotionally. Someone else who might understand what it’s like to be in a long term relationship and miss the spark. I have surpassed boredom and that is what has brought me here. My life is about taking care of others, and it’s become redundant and I am honestly bored. I miss creative conversation and my soul is missing that spark. I’m not looking to change your situation or my own. I am seeking someone who enjoys writing back and forward and really building a safe place for us to talk about anything and everything. Life, kids, ambitions, work goals, wants and desires. If I sound like someone you would enjoy getting to know. Please introduce yourself.