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Single Mums in Essex

United Kingdom / Essex

Single mums in Essex looking for genuine adult fun on their own terms

There are a large number of single mums across Essex using British Mature Sex to meet genuine local men when the time is right. Browse profiles in Basildon, Harlow, Chelmsford and the wider county today.

Showing single mums in Essex who have been active in the last 60 mins.

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Barking  Basildon  Benfleet  Billericay  Braintree  Brentwood  Buckhurst Hill  Canvey Island  Chelmsford  Clacton  Colchester  Dagenham  Epping  Harlow  Ilford  Loughton  Romford  Southend  Wickford  Witham

independentstory single mum in Colchester, Essex
independentstory
41 in Colchester
crumble-cake single mum in Chelmsford, Essex
crumble-cake
31 in Chelmsford
honeyblush single mum in Harlow, Essex
honeyblush
38 in Harlow
feminine-confident single mum in Harlow, Essex
feminine-confident
31 in Harlow
sugar-vibes single mum in Harlow, Essex
sugar-vibes
31 in Harlow
slowburn8 single mum in Brentwood, Essex
slowburn8
39 in Brentwood
satin-sheets single mum in Epping, Essex
satin-sheets
41 in Epping
lovelydemi single mum in Colchester, Essex
lovelydemi
34 in Colchester
HappyFitness single mum in Harlow, Essex
HappyFitness
44 in Harlow
greatness single mum in Brentwood, Essex
greatness
36 in Brentwood
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Active Single Mums in Essex

Updated on 23/07/2026
Kinkyfantasy1 single mum in Braintree, Essex
Braintree, Essex
Kinkyfantasy1, 38
Worthy of being my sub? I am an experienced domme and looking for a sub male who has very few limits. Can train any willing sub male who are novices especially if new to the scene or if you have experience that would be ideal.
windyday single mum in Brentwood, Essex
Brentwood, Essex
windyday, 41
I am very sensitive and feminine woman. My character can be different: I can be fun and energetic, and sometimes I'm serious and responsible. But most importantly, I believe, I try to be always positive, to be understanding to other people. I'm not going to say much about the man I want to meet. I want to say that he must be a person responsible and purposeful, and of course to understand me. The basis of the relationship between men and women, I believe, is trust. So I really want to trust my man.
wildflower01 single mum in Harlow, Essex
Harlow, Essex
wildflower01, 37
Well, I have a long-term sub-partner and met him from this site but since he is out of the country for a new project, I guess it's time for me to find a temporary sub-partner. I don't usually get along with the guys who hit my inbox because I prefer submissive guys. Have you ever tried being a sub before or it's not your thing?
great-look single mum in Basildon, Essex
Basildon, Essex
great-look, 39
I do get some nice compliments which makes people assume I'm having the time of my life right now. But I may be easy on the eye but it doesn't mean I'm meeting really great guys. They may be nice to look at and confident but sadly more often than not their heads are hollow and they are worse than a rookie in the bedroom. So yeah I am single and I am hoping to find the perfect sexual prospect here!
cute-olivia single mum in Colchester, Essex
Colchester, Essex
cute-olivia, 39
Trying to flirt is rather difficult at my age so forgive me if I fumble a bit. I'm not looking for a committed relationship anymore; that ship sailed a long time ago. Casual fucks and devious fun are what I'm looking forward to these days. I dont bite.... Unless you ask me too......
LillyWhite single mum in Brentwood, Essex
Brentwood, Essex
LillyWhite, 36
Keeping eye contact while being shagged senseless makes me feel like I'm burning inside and out. It's so intimate and sexual more often than not I loose myself in the moment and beg for the guy to pump his hot spunk into me mmmmmm it's just so good!
secretbookoflove single mum in Braintree, Essex
Braintree, Essex
secretbookoflove, 31
Tease me and use me as your sex toy, fucking me whenever you are horny. I'm very submissive, and I will beg you to slide your cock inside me, to choke me and slap me when I misbehave. I want to feel your POWER over me.
MistressAnn single mum in Harlow, Essex
Harlow, Essex
MistressAnn, 44
Step into the alluring world I've crafted, where desires awaken and boundaries crumble before me. I need who's ready to play with my boobs dirty and worship it. mindfucking, teasing & treating you like a toy. I can switch and be your slutty bitch, then be your dominant mistress and train you to exhibit BDSM ethics. enjoy this lifestyle together xx
wantingmore single mum in Brentwood, Essex
Brentwood, Essex
wantingmore, 35
In simple words just looking for something that makes me feel alive and desirable. FWB no stress, no strings attached. That would be great. I am a decent looking woman who just needs some attention, and penetration!
pure-perfection single mum in Basildon, Essex
Basildon, Essex
pure-perfection, 41
Interested in exchanging and living out fantasies. I want to know what gets you rock hard just thinking about. If the interests are mutual possibly meet up and try it.
maketime4me single mum in Brentwood, Essex
Brentwood, Essex
maketime4me, 38
Seeking *discreet* naughty play with local(ish) men. I dont want to have to travel far for a shag lol. Message me. Looking for ASAP. I'm hot but down to earth and friendly girl. I'm chatting, a bit scatty and so so slutty :)
tryjustme single mum in Billericay, Essex
Billericay, Essex
tryjustme, 43
I never tried to commit to a full-blown relationship with all the cheesy stuff and planning of the future talks. All I ever did was be in a playful flirting stage that didn't even last longer than a month. What can I say? It's too exhausting to devote my time to such affairs. PLUS why commit to one person when there's a whole sweet shop of men to enjoy :))))
sincerely-yours single mum in Billericay, Essex
Billericay, Essex
sincerely-yours, 31
Looking for encounters with horny uninhibited men who want to have fun and love sexual adventure. Men who want to fulfill their most perverted sexual fantasies. Sexual bliss and explosive orgasms is all we need :) Message me and lets talk more. Dont hide from me hahaha
spreadmycheek single mum in Chigwell, Essex
Chigwell, Essex
spreadmycheek, 44
Getting men to do what I want is not an issue. I'm dominant in bed, always have been and always will be. When I see man follow my orders exactly and to a tee, I make sure to reward him with a sloppy jobby until he cums or begs to enter my pussy.
desperate-alison single mum in Billericay, Essex
Billericay, Essex
desperate-alison, 34
I'm a hot curvy girl with a sexy bum who needs a fit guy who loves licking and pleasing! Always loved hearing what people would do to me/with me behind my bf's back. Willing to meet up if I find what I’m looking for but this needs to stay between us. Thanks guys :)

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Frequently Asked Questions

Yes. Single mums on British Mature Sex have joined specifically because they want adult company and casual fun. They are not here by accident. A woman raising children already has enough on her plate — when she takes personal time, she wants it to be worthwhile. Do not mistake the presence of children for a reluctance to enjoy her own life on her own terms.
Not at all. Single mums on this site are adults who have made a fully informed choice to be here. They have signed up, written a profile, and decided what they want from it. Treating them any differently from any other woman on the site would actually be patronising. They are here on their own terms, and that deserves to be taken at face value.
Most are looking for something real but uncomplicated — someone they genuinely enjoy spending time with, ideally on a regular basis. Very few are looking for a one-off with no chemistry. Many are not looking for a relationship that would intersect with their family life either. They want genuine adult connection without drama or domestic complications.
Often yes, but for different reasons than married women. Single mums may want to keep their personal life separate from their life as a parent — not out of shame, but because it is simply cleaner and easier. They often prefer someone who is relaxed about discretion for their own reasons, and who is not looking to become a fixture in their wider life until trust is properly established.
Be direct but not blunt. Single mums tend to appreciate honesty more than most because they genuinely do not have time for ambiguity. If you are looking for something casual, say so clearly. Be specific to her profile rather than sending a generic opener. And do not lead with anything about her children — that is her private life, not a conversation starter.
More than you might expect. Single mums aged 30 to 55 make up one of the most active demographics on the site. The idea that having children changes what a woman wants from her personal life is a myth. These are real women with full, busy lives — and a completely reasonable desire to enjoy sex and companionship with someone they actually like.
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