Do single mums prefer to keep things discreet?

Often yes, but for different reasons than married women. Single mums may want to keep their personal life separate from their life as a parent — not out of shame, but because it is simpler and cleaner. They often prefer someone who is relaxed about discretion for their own reasons, and who is not looking to become a fixture in their wider life until trust is properly established.

Single Mums in Surrey

United Kingdom / Surrey

Single mums in Surrey looking for genuine adult fun on their own terms

You'll find single mums across Surrey on British Mature Sex — women with real life experience who know exactly what they want from an encounter. They don't have much spare time, which means when they choose to meet someone, it counts.

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Showing single mums in Surrey who have been active in the last 60 mins.

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Active Single Mums in Surrey

Updated on 08/06/2026

Chessington, Surrey

LisKiss, 64

I’m not looking for perfect, I'm a realist. But it would be nice just to find someone who feels good to talk to, easy to be around, and maybe a little bit tempting when the night gets quiet. I'm not here to find anything serious. Just casual companionship that has a sexual component x

Guildford, Surrey

smoothestlust, 42

I try and be a good girl but sometimes I just cant help myself! I'm a sexual woman and my urges and desires often get the better of me. Natural blonde, blue eyes, slim figure, big tits (enhanced for your pleasure lol) I like to think I'm a friendly and approachable person. I like people from all walks of life and try and give people the benefit of the doubt even when they are being mean. You never know what someone is going through behind the scenes. My motto is 'kill them with kindness'.

Esher, Surrey

playfully-warm, 38

I’m a fun, sexy, spontaneous, free spirited woman and I am totally ready to reignite my inner goddess on so many different levels! I'm not high maintenance so you dont need to be impress me with anything fancy. And I'm generally easy going, but you're not doing yourself any favours by booking us into the local travelodge after a meal at a Weatherspoons lol

Egham, Surrey

sweet-lime, 48

I need a man for fun and some excitement! I'm single so free to be me and do as I please without shame or guilt. My last relationship was sexually boring so I'm aching to get wicked and wild! I want dirty, explicit porno sex. Can you ruin me?

Epsom, Surrey

WildObsession, 48

Most ladies here chase the tall, dark, and handsome types… but honestly, I think that’s overrated. I’m not after just a pretty face - I want a man who’s genuine, sweet, and knows how to be passionate when the lights go out. That’s the kind of guy who really turns me on.

Epsom, Surrey

RavishingRuby, 43

I may look like a tiger on the outside, but I'm soft, vulnerable and a little shy on the inside. I'm thoughtful. I care so much about people I love, and I would do anything to make them happy. But I think it's time I had a little more happiness in my life - and nothing makes me more happy than a good shagging hahaha

Windlesham, Surrey

NaughtyEscape, 41

Single, 100% genuine, sexy, and ready for action. I'm here for no-strings naughty play. No mind games and no stress.

Banstead, Surrey

romantic-harmony, 33

You'll find that I'm a fun-loving girl who loves to go on adventures and do silly things! Live is to short to be serious all the time. I'm also caring and understanding, and I'm that kind of person who respects a man's sexual desires and fantasies. And because of that, I always make an effort to fulfill those sexual needs. Seeing your pleasure turns me on x

Frimley, Surrey

wicked-giggle, 45

Hi !! Outgoing, fun, easy going and ready to meet someone in a similar situation. Hoping to get down & dirty with someone sooner rather than later x Based Hampshire/Surrey borders.

Warlingham, Surrey

cheeky-romantice, 52

I'm generally quite an active person with a busy lifestyle and a demanding job which I love. My current relationship has become more platonic than sexual over the years but I don’t want to disrupt anything. However I'm really missing the physical side of a relationship. Having a connection is important, so really looking for one person to meet up with on a regular basis. Nothing serious…just someone to have lots of fun with.

Windlesham, Surrey

highheels, 41

So, I’ll be honest, this is very difficult for me to write. I am in a relationship but need more to satisfy me. I have approached my partner with this issue and he couldn’t understand my point so I feel this is my only option. As you might be able to tell from my photos, I'm a saucy type of woman. I am down for most things and am even happy to do things at short notice, when possible. Just be nice and let’s experience satisfaction together xxx

Virginia Water, Surrey

wild-side6, 45

Curvy, confident, and absolutely insatiable. I love deep kisses, deeper conversation, and the kind of chemistry that leaves us tangled in the sheets. NSA? Perfect. I want a partner who’s as eager to please as they are to be pleased. Ready to make some messy memories?

Caterham, Surrey

midnight-trouble, 54

No drama, no expectations, just two grown-ups having some wicked fun! I'm flirty, a little wild when I'm with the right person, and very into chemistry that doesn’t come with baggage. You bring the spark, I’ll bring the heat :)

Egham, Surrey

slow-burn, 61

Divorced but definitely not here looking for love. I'm here looking for legs tangled at 2am. A little rough and a lot passionate! Just be clean, respectful, and filthy in all the right ways :)))

Esher, Surrey

sweetest-daydream, 54

I might look like your sweetest daydream, but don’t be fooled—I’ve got a flirty side that knows how to have fun. I love deep laughs, slow kisses, and playful conversations that leave us wanting more. If you’re looking for a little sugar with your spice, you might have just met your match!

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Frequently Asked Questions

Yes. Single mums on British Mature Sex have joined specifically because they want adult company and casual fun. They are not here by accident. A woman raising children already has enough on her plate — when she takes personal time, she wants it to be worthwhile. Do not mistake the presence of children for a reluctance to enjoy her own life on her own terms.

Not at all. Single mums on this site are adults who have made a fully informed choice to be here. They have signed up, written a profile, and decided what they want from it. Treating them any differently from any other woman on the site would actually be patronising. They are here on their own terms, and that deserves to be taken at face value.

Most are looking for something real but uncomplicated — someone they genuinely enjoy spending time with, ideally on a regular basis. Very few are looking for a one-off with no chemistry. Many are not looking for a relationship that would intersect with their family life either. They want genuine adult connection without drama or domestic complications.

Often yes, but for different reasons than married women. Single mums may want to keep their personal life separate from their life as a parent — not out of shame, but because it is simply cleaner and easier. They often prefer someone who is relaxed about discretion for their own reasons, and who is not looking to become a fixture in their wider life until trust is properly established.

Be direct but not blunt. Single mums tend to appreciate honesty more than most because they genuinely do not have time for ambiguity. If you are looking for something casual, say so clearly. Be specific to her profile rather than sending a generic opener. And do not lead with anything about her children — that is her private life, not a conversation starter.

More than you might expect. Single mums aged 30 to 55 make up one of the most active demographics on the site. The idea that having children changes what a woman wants from her personal life is a myth. These are real women with full, busy lives — and a completely reasonable desire to enjoy sex and companionship with someone they actually like.

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