Do single mums prefer to keep things discreet?

Often yes, but for different reasons than married women. Single mums may want to keep their personal life separate from their life as a parent — not out of shame, but because it is simpler and cleaner. They often prefer someone who is relaxed about discretion for their own reasons, and who is not looking to become a fixture in their wider life until trust is properly established.

Single Mums in Hertfordshire

United Kingdom / Hertfordshire

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Updated on 06/09/2026

Berkhamsted, Hertfordshire

swipe-right, 39

I'm single and not looking tot get tied down, for now anyway. In the meantime I want to make the most of being single and that means having fun and plenty of fulfilling, earth-shattering sex! Let's talking and see if we're into each other xxxx

Carpenders Park, Hertfordshire

starlight2, 43

Hi there! Thanks for visiting my profile xxxxxx So a little about me. Currently in a relationship and have been for a few years now, but looking to have NSA or a FB to keep me entertained nothing else. I am pretty straight forward, and know what I want, (hope I dont come across as rude) I am a confident individual but would rather play the submissive role in this venture.

Potters Bar, Hertfordshire

darknights2, 44

If, like me you're looking for an escape from everyday life, free of drama, stress, problems, then maybe we can help each other out. I'm single but not looking to become attached. I love my independence too much!

Watford, Hertfordshire

woods55, 36

I like how some pasta can be curly while others are straight. It's like sex. You either go in circles or go straight to your destination. If you ask me, I'd say I like both. Same shapes and pounding can be boring. PS I'm single but I'm not looking to date, just smash. DTF.

Borehamwood, Hertfordshire

Janette44, 44

I came to this site to find a mature and experienced man for casual but serious fun. I'm fresh out of a relationship which was sexually underwhelming so would love to meet a guy who knows what he's doing in bed and is ready to show me!

Watford, Hertfordshire

friendly-jane, 35

I am a playful and seductive girl who is willing and able to try almost anything that my man wants. I absolutely enjoy giving sloppy blowjobs mmmmm and could spend hours fucking. There is no better feeling than a thick hard cock sliding and pump my tight pussy. And then I quench my sexual thirst by swallowing all of his warm sweet juice x x x x x

Rickmansworth, Hertfordshire

galaxy, 36

This was a tough week and I'm looking to release a lot of stress!!! I need absolute discretion but want to have some fun when I'm bored. I really dont care what you look like, I'm genuinely all about the personality. I also dont care whether you're married or not. Their loss is my gain :)

Rickmansworth, Hertfordshire

sexy-baronnes, 39

Wanna hug me........ Naked?

Watford, Hertfordshire

luckyday1, 33

Today is your LUCKY DAY! I am a woman who explores darkest fantasies. A woman who is a demanding and controlling person. I am turned to that man who is ready to be with my lifestyle.

St. Albans, Hertfordshire

GoddessJess31, 31

I am a goddess who demands strict obedience and loyalty at all times.

Borehamwood, Hertfordshire

horny-honey9, 39

Just a girl looking to meet a man (or men) for unlimited and uncommitted intimacy. No promises of commitment. Not a bunny boiler. Only seeking adult fun times. Second time on here so I know how this works. Won't be seduced into chatting elsewhere. Will only show photos if you are will to show too x

Hatfield, Hertfordshire

elegantbabe, 41

My boyfriend who I love just can't keep his cock hard enough for me, it's kinda pathetic and I am now really hungry... if you know what I mean. I am so eager.. I want to be stretched and f...ed to the brim. I don't want anything rough but I would love for it to be thorough. Oral is nice but I am looking for most of my pleasure to be coming from another source. I like my nipples sucked and played with anal is nice as well.

Watford, Hertfordshire

MadisonL, 31

First time using a site like this and I'm both excited and nervous haha. I hope there's someone who can show me how to make the best out of my time here xxx My name is Madison. I'm 31, single parent of one. Sexually I'm very open and daring. Up for anything as you hopefully will soon find out :) BTW in the process of uploading some videos. It's taking soooo long!

Borehamwood, Hertfordshire

Sarahsexlover, 30

I'm only human so I need to be touched, caressed and kissed like every other person. I love giving oral sex and pleasing my partner. Whatever I do on here will be strictly NSA. No emotions or drama involved. Only the physical act alone. Its much simpler that way for me.

St. Albans, Hertfordshire

hazelbrunette, 31

I want to meet up somewhere outside and walk off to somewhere quiet and secluded then you push me against a tree and put your hand up my dress. while you pull open my blouse....... Do you know what to do next? Message me..

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Often yes, but for different reasons than married women. Single mums may want to keep their personal life separate from their life as a parent — not out of shame, but because it is simply cleaner and easier. They often prefer someone who is relaxed about discretion for their own reasons, and who is not looking to become a fixture in their wider life until trust is properly established.

Be direct but not blunt. Single mums tend to appreciate honesty more than most because they genuinely do not have time for ambiguity. If you are looking for something casual, say so clearly. Be specific to her profile rather than sending a generic opener. And do not lead with anything about her children — that is her private life, not a conversation starter.

More than you might expect. Single mums aged 30 to 55 make up one of the most active demographics on the site. The idea that having children changes what a woman wants from her personal life is a myth. These are real women with full, busy lives — and a completely reasonable desire to enjoy sex and companionship with someone they actually like.

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