Is it better to approach single women than married women on a site like this?

In some ways, yes. Single women are far less constrained. There is no need for discretion on either side, no risk of a complicated situation, and no cover story required. Conversations tend to be more open and meetings are easier to arrange. The trade-off is that there are fewer single women on adult sites, since they have more dating options available to them through mainstream apps and social circles.

Are older single women looking for relationships or just casual fun?

Both, depending on the individual. Being single at 45, 50 or 60 is increasingly a positive, deliberate choice rather than a circumstance. Many women of this age have already had the long relationship and raised a family — they are now fully focused on their own enjoyment. The idea that older single women are all desperately seeking commitment is well out of date. Many are actively avoiding it.

Do single women respond better to certain types of men?

Single women here tend to respond well to men who are relaxed and genuine. They are not in a complicated life situation the way married or separated women sometimes are, so they can afford to be more selective. A complete profile with a real photo and an honest description of what you want will always get better results than a sparse or vague one.

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Updated on 07/09/2026

Epsom, Surrey

WildObsession, 48

Most ladies here chase the tall, dark, and handsome types… but honestly, I think that’s overrated. I’m not after just a pretty face - I want a man who’s genuine, sweet, and knows how to be passionate when the lights go out. That’s the kind of guy who really turns me on.

Warlingham, Surrey

cheeky-romantice, 52

I'm generally quite an active person with a busy lifestyle and a demanding job which I love. My current relationship has become more platonic than sexual over the years but I don’t want to disrupt anything. However I'm really missing the physical side of a relationship. Having a connection is important, so really looking for one person to meet up with on a regular basis. Nothing serious…just someone to have lots of fun with.

Caterham, Surrey

midnight-trouble, 54

No drama, no expectations, just two grown-ups having some wicked fun! I'm flirty, a little wild when I'm with the right person, and very into chemistry that doesn’t come with baggage. You bring the spark, I’ll bring the heat :)

Egham, Surrey

slow-burn, 61

Divorced but definitely not here looking for love. I'm here looking for legs tangled at 2am. A little rough and a lot passionate! Just be clean, respectful, and filthy in all the right ways :)))

Esher, Surrey

sweetest-daydream, 54

I might look like your sweetest daydream, but don’t be fooled—I’ve got a flirty side that knows how to have fun. I love deep laughs, slow kisses, and playful conversations that leave us wanting more. If you’re looking for a little sugar with your spice, you might have just met your match!

Guildford, Surrey

helpmedoit, 49

ive been with the same guy for over 8 years and my sex life is extremely dull. im lucky if there is any sex in a month!!! when we do have sex i always find myself fantasising about other men, its the only way i can reach an orgasm! so i am hoping to meet someone though this site who is willing to experiment. im a pretty laid back person so i need someone more domineering.

Staines, Surrey

Kittyjassy, 58

Looking for someone to get to know and meet up with on a regular basis. Not into 1 night stands!! Just a normal genuine guy who wants some fun like myself. I want to feel that feeling of excitement when you first meet someone new. I'm a down to earth NORMAL, GENUINE & REAL woman with a good sense of humour. If you'd like to know more please feel free to message me x

Epsom, Surrey

lickmybody, 56

I admit it, there are times when I become so horny to the point that my hands already know what to do. Whenever I feel horny in public, I go home as fast as I can and immediately grab my vibrator the moment I get through the door. I think it's clear I need to get laid!

Windlesham, Surrey

charmingbeauty9, 59

I am a cheerful, bubbly and optimistic person who always tries to find a reason to smile even in the most difficult situations. I am also open and sociable. I easily find a common language with different people and enjoy communicating with friends and new acquaintances. But none of that makes it any easier to find a partner for a bit of fun. I guess it's just not that easy when you get to my age. Hopefully I'll have better luck on here :)

Caterham, Surrey

gold-tone, 55

I'm in my mid 50s and single after coming out of a long term relationship. For now, I cant see myself getting back into a serious relationship for sometime so in the meantime I may as well play the field :) I'm hoping to meet a softer type of dominant man. One that can go with the flow and understand that dominance is a gift I allow you to have over me. XxXx

Egham, Surrey

optimisticlady, 51

There's a lot of men who came into my life who miserably failed in making me feel satisfied, especially in the bedroom. But I'm still hopeful xxx I am an outspoken woman who will not fake an orgasm just to please a man's ego. I know what I want and I am not afraid to do anything just to get it.

Banstead, Surrey

wetter55, 56

I've been alone for a number of years now but I'm still not looking to be in a serious relationship. I dont think I will ever be ready. For now I'm happy just to have a little fun with a nice man. Fool around and have a good time. That will do me for now x

Egham, Surrey

fifty-shades, 49

Not sure what to put in here! Should I tell you about my hopes and dreams? No one wants to hear that lol. Should I tell you how I like to be fucked? I think that's something we should talk about one-to-one. So I guess I will just upload some photos (genuine - no photoshopping or filters) and if you like me I'm sure you'll write to me :) As they say, a picture says a thousand words x

Sunbury, Surrey

lolalips, 58

A decent, kind-hearted individual who shares my belief in the beauty of simplicity. I truly believe that happiness is found in the ordinary moments we share with the ones we love and care about.

Tadworth, Surrey

new-light, 47

Young sluts are not the only ones who can look cute. Even a more mature wamn such as myself is adorable in her own right :) Don't expect me to be naive just because I am cute. I have a lot of experience when it comes to pleasing a man. My experiences will surely let you see the world of sex in a brand new light xxxx

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It varies considerably from person to person. Some single women on this site are specifically looking for casual, no-strings encounters with no interest in anything more. Others want regular connection with someone they genuinely enjoy spending time with — something ongoing and relaxed, without formal relationship labels. A smaller number are open to something more serious if the right person comes along. Read her profile and take her at her word rather than assuming.

In some ways, yes. Single women are far less constrained — there is no need for discretion on either side, no risk of a complicated situation, and no cover story required. Conversations tend to be more open and meetings easier to arrange. The trade-off is that there are fewer single women on adult sites, since they have more dating options available through mainstream apps and social circles. The ones who do join here have usually made a deliberate choice to be direct about what they want.

Both, depending on the individual. Being single at 45, 50 or 60 is increasingly a deliberate, positive choice rather than a circumstance. Many women of this age have already had the long-term relationship and raised a family — they are now focused entirely on their own enjoyment. The idea that older single women are all desperately seeking commitment is well out of date. Many are actively avoiding it.

Married women tend to use discreet adult sites because they have fewer options for meeting people outside their existing relationship. Single women have access to mainstream dating apps and social circles, so the ones who join a site like this have made a deliberate choice — they want something more direct and adult, without the pretence of a conventional dating platform. That makes them worth seeking out.

Keep it short, honest and specific to her profile. Mention something she has actually written — it shows you have read it rather than copied and pasted an opener. Be direct about what you are looking for without being crude. Single women on this site tend to appreciate men who are clear and confident rather than vague about their intentions. A genuine, personalised message will always outperform a generic one.

Single women on this site tend to respond well to men who are relaxed and genuine. They are not in a complicated life situation the way married or separated women sometimes are, so they can afford to be selective. A complete profile with a real photo and an honest description of what you want will always get better results than a sparse or vague one. Confidence matters; trying too hard does not.

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